Alexandra Kathryn Mosca — Exploring Life and Death: A Writer's Journey

As we grow older, we often find that our confidence levels increase with each passing year. This newfound confidence is a result of a combination of factors. These factors include life experiences, self-discovery, and a greater sense of self-assurance.

One of the reasons for this increase in confidence is the accumulation of life experiences that come with age. Through various challenges and triumphs, we learn valuable lessons that shape our understanding of the world and ourselves. These experiences help us become more resilient and self-assured. We become more confident in our abilities to navigate life’s obstacles.

With age also comes a greater sense of perspective. We have seen more of the world, experienced different cultures, and met a variety of people. This expanded worldview helps us to see the bigger picture and not get caught up in trivial matters. Adopting a broader perspective enables us to face challenges with tranquility and assurance. We are secure in the knowledge that we possess the wisdom to manage whatever we encounter.

As we age, it’s also natural to reflect on our past. We wonder what advice we would give our younger selves. Many of us may have experienced a sense of dread about getting older. This is especially true in our twenties when societal pressures and beauty standards were at their peak. Yet, as the years pass, we come to realize that real beauty goes far beyond physical appearance. Feelings of personal fulfillment, accomplishment, and joy measure it. Wisdom and insights come from embracing the aging process. Additionally, as we get older, we tend to become more comfortable in our own skin. We have a better understanding of who we are, what we want, and what we believe in. This self-awareness allows us to confidently assert ourselves and stand up for our beliefs. We do this without worrying about what others may think.

If I could advise my younger self, I would stress the importance of staying in the moment. Life often has a way of resolving itself. By concentrating on the current moment, we can discover a sense of tranquility and purpose. Neither looking ahead nor back, we can trust that life will take us where we are meant to be.