I’ve been captivated by the world of literature from a young age. I found comfort and inspiration within the pages of books. By the time I reached first grade, I had already envisioned a future in writing. Now, I am an established writer in New York. I am also a licensed funeral director, known within my industry for my interviews with colleagues. My dual career has led to the publication of three books. I have also written many articles that provide insight into the world of funeral service.
Being a funeral director has influenced me to try new things. I’ve worked as a model and actress and sometimes appeared in the act of a stuntwoman friend.
I am committed to embracing life’s adventures. While my career focuses on funeral services, my true passion lies in writing. Colleagues and readers often refer to me as “the cemetery writer.” Recently, I have begun focusing on new topics, including women’s issues and the beauty and fashion industries.
Exploring these areas through my writing is incredibly fulfilling. I’m excited to share my experiences in fashion, beauty, health, and travel with you via this lifestyle blog. From style advice to must-see travel spots, I’m eager to bring you along on this adventure. The key, for me, was incorporating those subjects with my interest in cemeteries and funeral service to create a welcoming place for women.
I hope that my posts will entertain and inspire your own unique journey.
Of all the articles I’ve written about funeral service, this remains one of the most personal and meaningful.
What I’m Reading This Spring
My nightly ritual of curling up with a good book before bed continues into the spring.
The Mad Girls of New York, by Maya Rodale, brings Nellie Bly to life at the moment she steps into her role as a groundbreaking reporter. Rodale gives Bly’s undercover work at Blackwell’s Island energy, vivid detail, and a modern feel, while keeping the tough reality of the true story.
The novel stands put for its portrayal of Bly’s boldness. She’s a young woman who is tough, clever, and never takes “no” for an answer. Rodale adds fictional; “girl reporters” to the story (some based on real women), making it clear that women have always worked hard and found ways into places where they weren’t expected to be.
The book moves with the energy of a busy newsroom: fast, intense, and full of risk. Still, there are gentle moments, like Bly’s private doubts, friendships tested by stress, and the understanding that honesty can come at a price. In the end, The Mad Girls of New York honors brave women who change history by making sure their voices are heard.
I’ve read a lot about Nellie Bly over the years, but after finishing the historical novel The Mad Girls of New York, I felt inspired to return to Woodlawn Cemetery and visit her grave again. This time, I noticed the small tributes left by other visitors — including pens. They felt like thank-yous from readers, writers, and women who understood what it means to push against the limitations sometimes imposed on us. On my next visit, I’ll be sure to bring an extra pen to leave in memory of this groundbreaking journalist.
The Spectacular by Fiona Davis is a glittering, high‑kick of a novel — a mystery wrapped in mid‑century glamour, capturing the pulse, pressure, and quiet bravery inside one of New York’s most storied institutions.
Exploring Life and Death: A Writer’s Journey
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