Alexandra Kathryn Mosca — Exploring Life and Death: A Writer's Journey

When I first decided to start a lifestyle blog, it felt daunting. My colleagues and friends questioned how I could transition from the somber reality of my work as a funeral director to the bright world of beauty and fashion. However, I quickly realized that I didn’t need to compartmentalize my interests. Instead, I could draw parallels between both realms. For instance, beauty and fashion can be a powerful way to express who we are and honor the memories of those we have lost. One way of doing this is by wearing the deceased’s favorite color at the service. Each outfit we wear and every beauty product we choose can reflect our personalities and serve as tributes to the lives we’ve touched.

Here’s how I navigate this unusual yet fulfilling path.

In my daily life as a funeral director, I am often surrounded by those who are mourning. It is an honor to guide families through one of the most challenging times of their lives. I’ve learned that every life is worth celebrating, and part of that celebration can include a reflection on beauty, love, and fashion. After all, beauty is not merely skin deep; it encompasses the memories, stories, and emotions we carry with us. This belief inspired me to venture into blogging about beauty and fashion, with a focus on how we can intertwine daily life with a deeper understanding of what makes life enjoyable and meaningful.

Incorporating personal stories into my blog further enriches the content. I often share anecdotes from my experiences as a funeral director that illustrate the beauty of memories and how fashion played a role in those moments. For example, I may recount a story about a family who chose vibrant colors in their attire to reflect the joyous personality of their loved one, sparking conversations about the importance of individuality in grief. This kind of storytelling not only invites readers to engage with my posts but also illustrates the meaningful connections that fashion and beauty can foster among us.

In my blog, I emphasize mindful beauty—products that are not only aesthetically pleasing but are derived from ethical practices. This aligns perfectly with my work as a funeral director, where I believe in creating a respectful and meaningful farewell for the deceased. Mindful beauty also encourages individuals to appreciate simplicity and authenticity, qualities that resonate deeply with the experiences I encounter in my career. I share tips on how to curate a beauty routine that uplifts, heals, and enhances one’s natural allure while also being conscientious about the effects of products on our planet.

Fashion, much like the work I do, has the power to evoke emotions and memories. I curate looks that symbolize various life stages and moments, emphasizing that style is an expression of our journey. For instance, when I post about elegant attire suited for memorial services, I focus on the notion of celebrating life rather than mourning death. I aim to showcase that fashion can be both respectful and beautiful, offering families a way to honor their loved ones through personal expression.

Another vital aspect of my blog is mindfulness and self-care, essential themes as I navigate the emotional weight of my career. Funerals can be emotionally draining, so I often write about how I practice self-care through my beauty and fashion choices. Simple rituals, like applying a favorite lipstick or donning a comfortable yet stylish outfit, can serve as acts of self-love and empowerment. I encourage my readers to find small moments of joy in their routines, emphasizing that caring for oneself is paramount in the process of caring for others, especially during difficult times.

As I continue to develop my blog, I also seek to build a community. Readers often connect over shared experiences—whether they resonate with loss, celebrate beauty, or find solace in fashion. I encourage open discussions about how we navigate life’s complexities, allowing a safe space for vulnerability.

The intersection of my career as a funeral director and my lifestyle blog focused on beauty and fashion illustrates that even in the heaviest moments, there exists an opportunity for joy, creativity, and connection. By celebrating life through mindful beauty and fashion, I aim to create a dialogue that honors our stories, fosters understanding, and uplifts those navigating the complexities of grief and celebration. Through this unique blend of careers, I strive not only to express my passions but also to remind others of the enduring beauty of life, even in the face of loss.